Ilil Lunkry, ABS

ILIL is a sex, intimacy and relationship coach based in Nelson, New Zealand. Her passion is to help clients reach their full potential for pleasure, connection and love.

Ilil started her journey of erotic empowerment through her own life experiences. She knows what it means to live with debilitating wounds around intimacy and sexuality. She knows what it takes to rise from wounding towards radical self love, and open up to the love of others.

Ilil’s goal is helping clients help themselves. She believes that each person holds the inner knowing of what’s best for them. She guides clients to a closer relationship with their intuition, and teaches them the essential insight and tools for creating the life that is the most authentic, pleasurable, and fulfilling to them. In her sessions, she creates a judgement free, empathetic and de-shamifying space that celebrates every type of person. Her joyful personality naturally brings playfulness and humour and creates an encouraging space to engage in.

Ilil is a Certified Somatica ® Sex and Relationship Coach, a Certified Sexologist by the American Board of Sexology, and a youth sex educator accredited by the Israeli board of kids and youth sex education. She is currently training as a sexological bodyworker with the Institute of somatic sexology. Ilil brings a unique, holistic approach that has many influences including mindfulness, emotional freedom technique (EFT), dance and movement modalities, and sacred sexuality.

Ilil works with individuals and couples of all genders, sexual orientations and relationship structures. She offers sessions internationally via zoom, and in-person in Nelson, New Zealand.